Sky high legs

Hi there you little sugarplums!

Hope the sunshine has brought out the smilesandhappydances for you! The weather has been most awesomely fabulous and I have been enjoying wearing the other half of my closet...problem is, I have way too many things I want to wear! You see when I was a little girl, if I wanted to wear 2 different things the problem was simple to tackle...put both on. (Yes, I do remember a time when I was told to get undressed for a bath, and finally after taking off the 9th pair of underwear, I was able to jump in! 9 pairs!!) However, now at my age I'm thinking that I will stick to laying for fashion purposes only! That ish can be deadly.

So this outfit is what inspired my bloggie blog here today. I abs loved this outfit, and will def be wearing all these items again! I've had this skirt for a good few months now, and this was its first trip out of my closet. I have to say that I do love my legs. Not only are they tan and silky but they look about a half a mile long, yes, this is an outfit fav of mine for sure. I know that missy Ava was so tickled by it, she informed me she would be stealing my shoes when she gets older...then she stated, "Let’s take a picture, mom!"

This was the outcome :

Wearing : Shirt : De Masque - Skirt : De Masque - Shoes : Charlotte Russe

I had such a good photographer :

She didn't want to stop taking pictures :

Then I got the camera back and snapped one of her :

Isn't she perfect?

Welp, that's about it. Remember know how to walk in your shoes before walking out in the world...otherwise you'll end up like this chick:

Ouch!

Sunshinesmilesandkissesformiles,

DDemure



Things Just got real. No editing allowed

So, It's Monday! No mustaches today. Nope. Sorry. Today I grace your mind with realism. I have a lot to say, and a lot of things that often are left festering up in my mind, which is one reason I have this bloggie blog here. With that said, I do try to find some happyhappyjoyjoy things to amuse you with, while also giving you a little dose of reality squeezed in. So, here goes it...

I have been thinking a lot recently about relationships. Not mine with my boo (we are fabulous, thank you, always have been, always will be), relationships with friends, co workers, family, people outside of our immediate household, and the way that a traditional relationship should work.

According to the worldwideweb and most of the peeps out there in this insanity, most people believe relationships should be 50/50. However, I think it needs to be 100/100. How are you supposed to have a relationship with someone who is only willing to put in half of the work? Why are you constantly challenged to put forth your all in the relationship when the other does not reciprocate?

In this crazyinsaneworld we all get busy, we all have lives, families, jobs, obligations, and priorties. With understanding that, when we get so caught up and forget to call just to say, "Hi," why is it, that the other person is upset because you have not called or made plans. Is it right for them to be upset? NO. In a 100/100 relationship you both have the ability to pick up the phone and call. You BOTH have the ability to take the step in "watering" your relationship in hopes that it "grows."  But do you really want to put in that effort to watch your friendship bloom? Or are you, in it for when it is convient for you? Because FYI convience and relationships is no way to nurture something, it is a way to slaughter it.

So it is at this point in my life, that I ask myself : How much do I give and give just to be put on the back burner? When am I allowed to called this so-called "relationship" quits? When will this person stop making everything about them, and actually put some effort in our relationship?

: When am I allowed to walk away and never look back? :

And the answer is : Now!

After way to many attempts, as a human, you are allowed to back out. You are not admitting defeat, you are simply letting others know that your relationships that you currently have, are real, and will never be based on convience, judging, games or spite.

As for me : I don't have to participate in relationships that out of convience. I participate in relationships that are recriprocated. I don't have to help others just because I am a nice person. I want to help others because I am a good person. I may not have a thousand friends. But the friends and family I do have (ones that have shown our relationship is NOT based on convience...you know who you are) are genuine, loyal, honest, and up front. No games are played, and no sides are taken. All who want the relationship, participate, and they participate 120%. It is part of being an adult, part of being a person with morals, and values. I know these kind of people are hard to come across these days, but look hard enough and out of every onehundredpeople, I bet you will find one that may meet this criteria. Good luck in your search!

T is for....

Well, yesterday was Mustache Monday, and according to Khloe Kardashian its Tit Slip Tuesday! (Sorry for the vulgarity, but if she can let it slip on TV; a few words can slip here) But seriously Khloe, that little stunt might have upped your Google results and helped you "promote" whatever it is that you are, but for the viewers who saw that crap on TV this am we all had to wash our eyes with disinfectant....twice! And to answer your question, yes, they still are burning. Are you sure you want to see this ish??

Didn't think so! When I tried uploading it, this picture took it's place!If you didn't notice there is an ERROR message written all over it!
No really though, I didn't post this pic because I don't want you hurling on your keyboard! Next time Khloe keep your tit in your top.

Well friends, today I needed a little pep in my step so I threw on these fav shoes of mine. We became buds a year ago in Vegas, and these shoes have never let me down :

You see, Mr. Guess and I are best friends now (yeah it took a year or so) and when he thinks I need to add a little pop to my step he has exactly what I am longing for! Leopard-check! Hot factor-+10 Price of wearing these amazing shoes-huh! priceless. So add a little funk in your day...get yourself to a Guess Store! You won't be disappointed!

So as for Day 11 of the now 60 day challenge (it was 30!), has been done A LOT! Day 11 challenge was to post a recent picture of yourself, in this case myself! Well, as most of you know I am pretty awkward when it comes to taking pictures of myself, and I think that after you got a whole montage yesterday you should be pretty satisfied with the amount of times you have seen my face this week. Besides I like to be more vivacious and less ostentatious! It makes the soul happier and your face prettier! Get some! Well, folks we skip...to...

: DAY 12 :

A song I want played at my wedding :

I'm giving this one up Jay, just because you have NO idea how sweet it is to be loved by you!

Well, that's it!! Enjoy your Thirsty Tuesday, Tasty Tuesday, Tit pop Tuesday, whatever this Tuesday is for you Enjoy it! Smile, be happy, be kind. I'm out.

DDemure



Mustache Monday Baby!

 

You made it to Mustache Monday! The one day of the week where fools go out wearing their weekend mustaches on a weekday. I found some fun people for you to view today, no I won't be asking Jay anytime soon to work on his Stache....no thank you!

This guy thought that including his nipples and chest in this "buzz cut" would elongate his neck, instead it just looks like a trail of chin pube vomit. This is a DON'T

This guy, as you can see is not only proud of the fact that he thinks he looks like a cop. But he is happy he can drive all over town "white lipping" people...and they can't see him!! Sneaky guy!

 And as for Fido, his stache was not his first choice...As you can tell.

And what kind of day would it be if you saw all these staches, but didn't see mine? It would be a horriblenogoodverybadday. And we can't let that happen now can we? So here's my stache!

Enjoy the Mustache Song....and please remember tomorrow is Tuesday...no face pubes allowed!

Kisses,

DDemure



Fumbling Format...but you my friend have a blog to read!

Look who it is!! Oboy! Trying to subsume this amount of joy and excitment is nearing impossible.

In fact, I'm so happy, I want to do cartwheels all over this room. But I was blessed with long legs, so the probability for damaging something is pretty great. So I will leave that disaster for this chick :

OUCH!

As promised, I told your beautiful faces, I would be "showcasing" all of Jay's Outfit Picks from him dressing me! Ok so right about now, you can happily imagine me, jumping up and down singing, "ya'll ready for this? Dunnanah" Oh yeah! Because it's just that good...it requires a song like that peeps!

   

I know, I missed you too...

Hey there friends!

Did ya miss me? I surely missed all your happiness you throw my way! Truth is, things have been a little crazy! As you know last Friday was DAY 5, and the last day, of Jay dressing me (major sad face). I loved the outfit!! But in all honesty, it takes a lot of time to put these things together, so I am sorry for those I disappointed by not posting! 

Last Friday Missy Ava accompanied me to work. In between my crazy busy schedule, she filled in for a conference call, wrote checks to our CFO for onehundredmillion dollars...then told them they would bounce! ha! All the while playing ping pong, and then "renting" my office decor to others. Needless to say, it was busy, fun, but busy! So, sorry, once again for the major lag factor that happened!! I know your eager to see his fashion sense yet once again! "That was perfect for Memorial Day Weekend!"

 Are you ready for JAY'S last outfit pic:

Shirt : Grass- Pants : Charlotte Russe- Shoes: Naughty Monkey

What Jay thinks about this outfit :

Classy

Clean

The white pants are hot 

(he's always loved my white pants)

What I say about this outfit :

I loved it. White pants make me feel confident, and classy. Shoes, are great. I need to pull them out of my closet more, just like every other shoe he fitted me in this week. So I vow to do that! All in all would I wear this again? Yep! And I will rock the pants year round too!

So, that was it! I hope you enjoyed the last day of Jay dressing me! Saturday morning was quite difficult, as I could get used to having someone else dress me everyday! My mom mentioned Ava....ha! Now that would be hilarious. I will sure to post some pictures if I am brave enough to let that happen!

Otherwise, I am looking for more challenges. New, fun, things to do and try. If you have some ideas, don't be shy! Stay tuned tomorrow for a compilation of Jay's picks last week!

Smile, love, be happy.